Life is Beautiful

To All regular people, Please be a little kind. Being Kind is COOL and It costs nothing! What Not to 1. He looks so normal! Is it, what did you expect? why on earth anyone in their right mind would say their kid is autistic when the kid is not. 2.  Maybe if you  discipline  your kid enough, he won't act like it. The wiring in autistic kid's brains is different. If I spank my child he won't connect his  behavior  with the discipline tactics used. He will only think Mommy hurt me. We go through hours of OT and Behavioural therapy sessions, it takes time, like months and years.. and still in progress. 3. My child has meltdowns too, it's all part of childhood. OMG, Temper tantrums are normal yes we agree, Meltdowns are COMPLETELY different, I assure you. I know the difference. 4. God only gives special kids to special parents. Please no, We are ordinary people just like you. Any parent would do anything for a kid in need. You would too. 5. Autistic kids will be...

What is happiness? It's a state of mind. It's simple but hard to understand. Happy = Watching a movie in IMAX  Happy = That new handbag/ Shoe/ Watch that you have been longing for Happy = Meeting and chilling with friends Happy = Food Happy = Everything going as planned. Happy = Money Happy = Trip to Maldives Happy = People/Relationship Trust me non of these are going to make you happy unless you are happy from within. Ok, how to be happy from within. It's a choice. Happiness is a choice. I am having a bad moment, I can cry over it the whole day or I can dust it off and choose to do something to make myself happy. I would say true happiness is freedom, mental freedom.  My take on happiness is when your virtual world (dream world) is close to your real world. That's when you are truly happy.  How to make the Dreamworld close to the real world? 1. Work hard for your dream. 2. Realize something are beyond us. 3. Focus on what's in our control. 4. Accept life is unfair....

தரமான படம்.. இன்னும் பார்கவில்லை என்றால் மேலே படிக்க வேண்டம்.. ஒரு வரி கதை : எய்தவன் இறுக அம்பை நோவானேன் என்று எய்தவனை குறி வைக்கும் IPS ஜெயிதனா தோற்றான ? கதை களம் ஒன்றும் நமக்கு புதிதல்ல, திரைகதை பின்ன பட்ட விதம் சூப்பரு, ஆரம்ப சில கட்சிகள் அலுப்பு தட்டினாலும், அக்கட்சிகளுக்கு பின்பாதியில் நியாயம் சேர்த்திருக்கிறார் இயக்குனர். நயன்தாரா முதல் நண்பர்களாக வரும் அனைவரும் கனகட்சிதமாக பாத்திரத்தில் பொருந்துகிறார்கள். நான் ரசித்தவை : 1. ஹீரோவுக்கு ஒரு flashback வைக்காமல், ரொம்ப நல்லவனாக கட்டுவதுகு மேனகெடாமல்,  video games போல soduku போல குற்றங்களை நூல் பிடித்து சென்று அழிப்பது ஒரு addiction அவ்ளவே .. completly buyable! 2. நாயகிக்கு ஒப்புக்கு சப்பாணியாக இல்லாமல், mild comedy, காதல், IPS பயிற்சி விலகி forensic படிப்பு பின்பாதி உபயோகமாய் இறுத்தல் என்று கணம் சேர்த்திருக்கிறார் 3.செயின் பறித்தவர்கள் எங்கு , என்ன செய்திருப்பார்கள் என்று யூகிக்கும் கட்சி.. வில்லன் தன் ரூமுக்குள் வந்ததை உறுதி படுத்தும் கட்சி இரண்டும் அருமை 4. அரவிந்த் சுவாமி, 18 குழந்தைகளை சோதனை முயற்சியில்...

I only write when i am really happy or if something/someone is really bothering me.. In the recent past i visited a famous renowned jewellery shop in town, They had separate sections for jewels in different floors, I wandered up and down and choose jewels from 3 different floor.. and finally i was hoping to bill all the stuff at ground floor.   I had around out of 100 collections 5 items in my final selection and short listed to 3 before actual billing they used give us an estimate and then we will have to bargain on the final price.. Thats how it works in Chennai.. In estimate  vat/wastage/making charged % details were not there just the final price, so once again i asked for the % details make payment, but the sales women was very rude and was not answering my questions instead kept questioning, why? don't you remember %? the tone and body language was not polite.. I was totally pissed and requested the floor manager for another sales rep to handle my bill, The FM had...

Life is fast.. It demands us to be on our toes all the time.. There is a lot going on with everyone like for ex. Grades, Break up, Work,Accidents, Sickness what not.. At some point, we might be overwhelmed, stressed, depressed. It ok to take a break and slow down once in a while, when we do we actually don't know what to actually do during free time. Heres a few tips to help you with rejuvenating yourself  Tips for instant results: Wear bight color dresses Go for shopping Pamper yourself with some comfort food/spa Change your style Make changes in your room Read a book  Tips for long lasting results, which needs a little bit of planning : Visit Family & Friends Take a Trip Get a pet. Brush up your old skills Volunteer  / Donate for a cause.  Few more tips for a life time of happiness: Invest in yourself Wear Bright colored dresses: When you're stressed and don't have time for yourself, but ve lots of s...

It has been like a roller coaster ride.. I knew i was pregnent when we were at munaar on our 3rd honeymoon, I tried giving little hints to my husband but he was not smart enough to crack it. Then i told the very info on a boat in a middle of the lake, and was waiting him to react, but he was calm and composed, i dint get the response which i was expecting may be i was too filmy. I felt very special that i am going to deliver a new life to this world, never in my life i have felt myself as important or worth as now. I was the centre of attraction where ever i go, lots n lots of wishes, greeting, advices and cautions. I was surprised to know how many people even strangers cared during this phase.  I did feel butterflies and bubble bursting effects (around end of 22 week) later i came to know those were kicks of my baby's tiny little feet. One can hardly explain how it feels when the baby kicks, Its a girl thing, however as baby grows kicks will be stronger that anyone can f...