Life is Beautiful

What is happiness? It's a state of mind. It's simple but hard to understand. Happy = Watching a movie in IMAX  Happy = That new handbag/ Shoe/ Watch that you have been longing for Happy = Meeting and chilling with friends Happy = Food Happy = Everything going as planned. Happy = Money Happy = Trip to Maldives Happy = People/Relationship Trust me non of these are going to make you happy unless you are happy from within. Ok, how to be happy from within. It's a choice. Happiness is a choice. I am having a bad moment, I can cry over it the whole day or I can dust it off and choose to do something to make myself happy. I would say true happiness is freedom, mental freedom.  My take on happiness is when your virtual world (dream world) is close to your real world. That's when you are truly happy.  How to make the Dreamworld close to the real world? 1. Work hard for your dream. 2. Realize something are beyond us. 3. Focus on what's in our control. 4. Accept life is unfair....

தரமான படம்.. இன்னும் பார்கவில்லை என்றால் மேலே படிக்க வேண்டம்.. ஒரு வரி கதை : எய்தவன் இறுக அம்பை நோவானேன் என்று எய்தவனை குறி வைக்கும் IPS ஜெயிதனா தோற்றான ? கதை களம் ஒன்றும் நமக்கு புதிதல்ல, திரைகதை பின்ன பட்ட விதம் சூப்பரு, ஆரம்ப சில கட்சிகள் அலுப்பு தட்டினாலும், அக்கட்சிகளுக்கு பின்பாதியில் நியாயம் சேர்த்திருக்கிறார் இயக்குனர். நயன்தாரா முதல் நண்பர்களாக வரும் அனைவரும் கனகட்சிதமாக பாத்திரத்தில் பொருந்துகிறார்கள். நான் ரசித்தவை : 1. ஹீரோவுக்கு ஒரு flashback வைக்காமல், ரொம்ப நல்லவனாக கட்டுவதுகு மேனகெடாமல்,  video games போல soduku போல குற்றங்களை நூல் பிடித்து சென்று அழிப்பது ஒரு addiction அவ்ளவே .. completly buyable! 2. நாயகிக்கு ஒப்புக்கு சப்பாணியாக இல்லாமல், mild comedy, காதல், IPS பயிற்சி விலகி forensic படிப்பு பின்பாதி உபயோகமாய் இறுத்தல் என்று கணம் சேர்த்திருக்கிறார் 3.செயின் பறித்தவர்கள் எங்கு , என்ன செய்திருப்பார்கள் என்று யூகிக்கும் கட்சி.. வில்லன் தன் ரூமுக்குள் வந்ததை உறுதி படுத்தும் கட்சி இரண்டும் அருமை 4. அரவிந்த் சுவாமி, 18 குழந்தைகளை சோதனை முயற்சியில்...

I only write when i am really happy or if something/someone is really bothering me.. In the recent past i visited a famous renowned jewellery shop in town, They had separate sections for jewels in different floors, I wandered up and down and choose jewels from 3 different floor.. and finally i was hoping to bill all the stuff at ground floor.   I had around out of 100 collections 5 items in my final selection and short listed to 3 before actual billing they used give us an estimate and then we will have to bargain on the final price.. Thats how it works in Chennai.. In estimate  vat/wastage/making charged % details were not there just the final price, so once again i asked for the % details make payment, but the sales women was very rude and was not answering my questions instead kept questioning, why? don't you remember %? the tone and body language was not polite.. I was totally pissed and requested the floor manager for another sales rep to handle my bill, The FM had...

Life is fast.. It demands us to be on our toes all the time.. There is a lot going on with everyone like for ex. Grades, Break up, Work,Accidents, Sickness what not.. At some point, we might be overwhelmed, stressed, depressed. It ok to take a break and slow down once in a while, when we do we actually don't know what to actually do during free time. Heres a few tips to help you with rejuvenating yourself  Tips for instant results: Wear bight color dresses Go for shopping Pamper yourself with some comfort food/spa Change your style Make changes in your room Read a book  Tips for long lasting results, which needs a little bit of planning : Visit Family & Friends Take a Trip Get a pet. Brush up your old skills Volunteer  / Donate for a cause.  Few more tips for a life time of happiness: Invest in yourself Wear Bright colored dresses: When you're stressed and don't have time for yourself, but ve lots of s...

It has been like a roller coaster ride.. I knew i was pregnent when we were at munaar on our 3rd honeymoon, I tried giving little hints to my husband but he was not smart enough to crack it. Then i told the very info on a boat in a middle of the lake, and was waiting him to react, but he was calm and composed, i dint get the response which i was expecting may be i was too filmy. I felt very special that i am going to deliver a new life to this world, never in my life i have felt myself as important or worth as now. I was the centre of attraction where ever i go, lots n lots of wishes, greeting, advices and cautions. I was surprised to know how many people even strangers cared during this phase.  I did feel butterflies and bubble bursting effects (around end of 22 week) later i came to know those were kicks of my baby's tiny little feet. One can hardly explain how it feels when the baby kicks, Its a girl thing, however as baby grows kicks will be stronger that anyone can f...

நான் ஈ - திரைப்பட விமர்சனம் இரண்டு முறை ticket reserve செய்தும் சூழ்நிலை காரணமாக போகமுடியாமல் மூன்றாவது முறை weekdays la அடம்பிடித்து பார்த்த  படம்.. நான் ஈ படத்தின் இயக்குனர் ராஜமௌளியின் சில படங்களை பார்த்திருக்கிறேன்.. அவற்றுள் Sye & Magatheera are my personal Favorites.. Magatheera பார்த்துவிட்டு கோல்கொண்டா போர்ட் சென்றே ஆக வேண்டும் என அடம் பிடித்து போனவருடம் இதே ஆகஸ்ட் மாதம்.. வெற்றிகரமாக அந்த ஆசையை நிறைவேற்றியாச்சு..    இப்போ நம்ம விமர்சனத்துக்கு வருவோம் கதை ஒன்றும் நமக்கு புதிதல்ல.. கதாநாயகியின் மேல் ஆசைப்பட்டு கதாநாயகனை கொன்ற வில்லனை கதாநாயகன் மறுஜென்மம் எடுத்து பழி வாங்குகிறார்.. கதைகளமே  புதிது..  Fantacy + நம்ம ஊரு மசாலாவின் சரியான கலவை  = நான் ஈ   படத்திற்கு  பெரிய + Animation, அணைத்த காட்சிகளும் ரொம்பவே fresh.             ஈக்களின் பெரிய கண்களை எந்த வகையான expressionஉம் கொண்டு வரமுடியவிடினும் அதன் அசைவுகளை வைத்து விளையாடி இருகிறார்கள்.. ஒலிப்பதிவு  ...

Its 2012.. People say world will come to an end this year.. may be long back someone would have forecasted we karthik n myself, two totally different people.. right from food, interests and attitude.. would get married this year. I should say LOVE is the only common thing between us.. I have the habit of giving customized hand made gifts for friends and family, its his birthday.. i was dying to make it the most memorable birth day of his life. I knew he might expect me to do something.. A surprise is truly a surprise only when something happens unexpected. So to break his expectations, i planed to give away few of the gifts i choose to give him.. on the  new year 's eve, his bday was on Jan 4th as we just meet and were miles apart.. I created an illusion that this is it and which was  convincing. I had a plan for his birthday.. Karthik is not a morning person, he usually wakes up by 10AM.. I booked the flight ticket so that i could reach his place by 7 AM - 8 AM, so he'll...