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    This is my second blog.. another try.. My first blog was all about ma family.. In this blog i would like to write about the relationship between boys and gals. This blog aims in answering the million dollar question.. what to gift the girl/boy you love. This i guess may be the question which eats the brain of many youngsters.





    Lets start will girls as always ladies are first.
    It is really very easy to satisfy girls. Small things are enough to make a girls happy.For girls it all about giving and not about what you give.All you have to do is use a little common sense, like Instead of giving a big single card to your girl just go for 10 -15 cute small cards just give her one by one throughout the day (say on her birthday or valentines day) and say i love you every time you give her the card.

    Girls will always love to have handful of gifts rather than one costly gift.Girls always love fancy things, they always go for thing which they can show off, than things which they can really use, fancy like flowers, toys (like teddy,tweety), cards, show piece, crystal dolls..
Classic (and costly) gifts include rings,anklets,watch,doller, locket, dress (esp saree), mobile etc..
Puppies, fishes (preferably  gold fish), love birds,  rabbit are also good choice of gifts



Every gift should be accompanied either by flowers or chocolates or both..
Flowers - You kindle the real girl in her by gifting her flowers, you will see her feeling shy when she receives flowers from you
Chocolates - A chocolate will make her go crazy on you for sure, coz she believes that you think still she is a kid when you get her chocolate. she will love you more than ever.. Dont forget to complement that she is stunningly beautiful and pretty.. :-) lols





        Enough of gals lets start with boys now..       Boys are crazy.. Satisfying boyz is a real  tough job.. coz boyz dont get excited for small things like girls.. they demand things to be big.. stunning.. There are only few gifts which you can actually buy for boys like sunglass, watch, digi cams, perfumes, shoes, jerkin, sweaters, t-shirt, shirt.. but these things will only make them happy.. not crazy

Make some thing of your own like
cook something for him eg sweet, chocolates, cakes, pudding.. and like
Sew a sweater, mufler..
Make a greeting card, painting, doll



    when you make something of your own accord for him, he will feel out of the world. No matter how stupid, silly gifts you make, he will love it, coz he will feel special, privileged. Butterflies will fly in his stomach.. he will start loving you more than ever, not just because of the gifts , but for making him feel poetic and artistic. I bet he'll appreciate your efforts, for making them with all your love, care and patience. Above all boyz are crazy about girls smile. lit up ur face with a bright, soft and soothing smile and say him i love you in a husky voice, with a perfect romantic eye contact.

    Gifts plays a very vital role in any relationship for that matter though, vital thing about love is not gift. After all people will forget what you give and what you say but people will never forget the way you made them feel your love, like they have to feel that they are the most loved person in the earth ever. Just make them feel ur totally crazy about them, They'll reciprocate the same.

Comments

  1. romba aaraichi pannirkinga madam... anyways the research is absolutely correct and this fits exactly for all.. not only for girls and boys.. its for men and women(MArried. The suggestions are worth reading and people you can follow this to attract your loved ones... Keep up research and we expect a lot of reasearches like this from you..

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  2. Hit Century again :-)
    U Proved like sachin - He's aged but playing like an young demon...
    Lets hope up for the next hit :-)

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  3. The funniest part is that gals always believe they know the truth.. and they always feel that even after your selfcooked sweets were as good as the one which he had in his kitchen for years, still he will hide it and make u feel proud of ur cooking skills, he might not be having an outing the very next day as he would be consuming lots of ORS.. lol

    Anyway.. welcome back to blog VINS... looking forward for many such post..:)

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  4. hmmm short and to the point, i guess you have done a research on this. I was looking for ur suggestion on gifts for occasions like birthday, new year, etc., hope u'll add it in the upcoming version...

    Simply, super star padam maathiri 2nd blog late ah vanthalum lively vanthirukku…Kudos!!!!

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  5. Sina, chinna ponnu Sina..;) You are already beautiful and pretty..;) ;) but these days you are getting more beautiful by heart and pretty by mind ;) ;) ... Choclates (not one.. a big box) and Flowers (not a bunch, but a garden) follow shortly in ma next trip to India... ;) ;) If not for a good friend, then for whom... correct na??? ;)

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  6. short and sweet good one..speaking regarding the gifts....abt girls i cannot comment.so we will take urs judgement is the best one..coming to the boys.to be frank boys never expect any gift,they may tease u by asking gifts and comment on the gift given...that gift is of no matter to them..girls care and love is all they expect..tis is the ultimate truth.

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  7. @Vini, nice write.. you have felt and enjoyed every bit into writing this, can feel this in your latest blog.... http://vini910.blogspot.in/2012/05/bawas-first-bday-with-me.html

    Reflections of the mind after 2 years... Lovely!!!

    @Kamalkannan, "guys dont expect gifts, all they expect is the girl's care and love".. Super...

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