Restart Life
Have you ever lost you friend in an accident? If not you ll have no clue how painful it might be.. I recently did, my friend lost her husband in an road accident. This is total injustice.. god has been totally unfair to her. Unfortunately i wasn't able to be supportive for her, i got the news a day later. I was literally shocked.. i wasn't sure how to react to this news.. I cant stop her from crying nobody can, but i can cry with her.
Its just one year since she got married to him, it was a love cum arranged marriage. They were one of the ideal couples i have known. They were just perfect for each other like soul-mates.. For everyone else its just a news..Of course people will feel sorry, that is all they can do..they can just convey their heart felt condolence. People will be there around for a week to ten days, she has to face the life all alone.. after all how much life would mean to her at this point of time. God this is not at all fair.. this should not have happened this way, she is way too young to be a widow.. he has not even got a child as a token of their love, infact he has recently resigned her job, as she was planning for the baby, Not sure, she not having a baby is for good or bad?!?
I wish people should not blame her for what ever has happened.. the poor girl needs some time to accept the reality that he is gone..she need some time to regret and settle..I wish she cries, and drains all her depression.. however she will not be able to.. Her family will soon, start convincing her for another marriage.. she has a life to live. No matter what happens life has to go on.. these words can never be more meaningful. Time has the power to heal all wounds..but its not the time which actually heals, what you do with time heals.. she will have to cultivate a will power to come out of it.. this is going to be tough.. really tough, i pray got to give her all the strength to overcome such a tragedy.
No one has the power to revert what has happen, we just have to look forward what to do next. This is the worst things which can ever happen to a women. This incident has affected me so much, I often have a habit of asking god "WHY ME" now i realize there are real pathetic problems and heart crushing challenges to face. Always leave your loved ones.. with a sweet word and smile.. cause you never no if you will come back alive to see the smile again, live the moment, Take nothing for granted, anything can happen anytime. There is a lot of negativity in this post, i am sorry my heart is heavy, i cant help it. You sure need some negativity once in a while to be positive.
May his soul rest in peace!
Its just one year since she got married to him, it was a love cum arranged marriage. They were one of the ideal couples i have known. They were just perfect for each other like soul-mates.. For everyone else its just a news..Of course people will feel sorry, that is all they can do..they can just convey their heart felt condolence. People will be there around for a week to ten days, she has to face the life all alone.. after all how much life would mean to her at this point of time. God this is not at all fair.. this should not have happened this way, she is way too young to be a widow.. he has not even got a child as a token of their love, infact he has recently resigned her job, as she was planning for the baby, Not sure, she not having a baby is for good or bad?!?
I wish people should not blame her for what ever has happened.. the poor girl needs some time to accept the reality that he is gone..she need some time to regret and settle..I wish she cries, and drains all her depression.. however she will not be able to.. Her family will soon, start convincing her for another marriage.. she has a life to live. No matter what happens life has to go on.. these words can never be more meaningful. Time has the power to heal all wounds..but its not the time which actually heals, what you do with time heals.. she will have to cultivate a will power to come out of it.. this is going to be tough.. really tough, i pray got to give her all the strength to overcome such a tragedy.
No one has the power to revert what has happen, we just have to look forward what to do next. This is the worst things which can ever happen to a women. This incident has affected me so much, I often have a habit of asking god "WHY ME" now i realize there are real pathetic problems and heart crushing challenges to face. Always leave your loved ones.. with a sweet word and smile.. cause you never no if you will come back alive to see the smile again, live the moment, Take nothing for granted, anything can happen anytime. There is a lot of negativity in this post, i am sorry my heart is heavy, i cant help it. You sure need some negativity once in a while to be positive.
May his soul rest in peace!
There are things which we can just mearly watch and cry "oh boy !" for its the almighty who defined our roles. Lets pray for the departed and lets pray for giving strength to the survivors of this tragedy.
ReplyDeletemay his soul rest in peace
Tears roll down by cheeks when i heard the news and now read ur post also..This incident affected me very much..still i cannot come out of that..May his soul rest in peace..
ReplyDeleteIs your friends name Sharmila??? such a pathetic situation should never ever occur to anyone in this world..God beg you to give her hope and energy to bear her pains..reveal her a meaning to lead rest of her life.Shiva I can understand your pain.My heart pains even though i have not seen her. we can pray for your friend.. thats all is left in our hands..
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